99.9% of the users on this forum have abandoned the Benbox software and firmware. The alternatives address the failures, offer better options, work with a standard protocol, are under active development, and are supported!!
Most people new to laser engraving/cutting expect the tool to just work. The video showed everything working perfectly. More lies, fraud, and photoshop than reality. If you want to proceed cautiously get a replacement Arduino Nano board and load the new firmware on it. You can then revert back by just swapping boards.
As for learning the terminology, do it or fail. Like any other tool it is necessary to learn how to use it properly.